As a child is still learning to communicate and increasingly wanting to become autonomous, they exhibit toddler aggression likely in the form of hitting, biting or tantrums. Parents should know that toddler aggression is normal behaviour for a young and developing child. Although normal you still need to discipline your child and teach them that being aggressive is not acceptable behaviour. Here are some tips to follow when dealing with toddler aggression:
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Tip 1: Take Your Toddler Away
If you toddler displays aggression such as hitting another child in a play area, remove him or her immediately from the situation. At this stage of their lives toddlers do not have the maturity to fully understand a verbal explanation as to why their behaviour was not acceptable. So don’t lecture them for 10 minutes about their bad behaviour. Instead, they understand punishment. Removing them from the fun play area is punishment and they will learn that their bad behaviour caused this.
Tip 2: Do an Outdoor Activity
Toddlers are extremely active. To stop toddler aggression it is a good idea to take your child to a park and let them run around. It is a good way for your child to exert some healthy energy. Spending time together as a family this way is also fun and by the time your child is finished he or she may be too tired to be aggressive.
Tip 3: Act Immediately and Keep Reminding Your Child
As soon as you catch your child in the act of being aggressive such as hitting another child, immediately teach them that this is wrong behaviour. Always be calm, do not react aggressively yourself otherwise your child will only copy your behaviour and get even madder. Keep reminding your child and telling them that behaviour such as hitting is not acceptable. Your kid is still learning and have short memories at this stage so keep reminding them of what is good and bad behaviour until they get it.
Toddler aggression results from kids trying to communicate and getting attention. To stop their bad behaviour you need to constantly educate them so that they eventually learn how to properly behave. Check out The Happy Child Guide. It is a great resource that helps curb toddler aggression permanently.
Filed under Toddler Aggression by on Feb 23rd, 2010. Comment.
